"I can't understand the basis that people expect to have money they donated, returned."
When substantial money is donated typically there is an intended use that compelled the donation. When use of the donated money is for something other than intended then hackles get raised because the person feels like they were misled and, basically, suckered for their money.
Otherwise I'm with you. If someone donates money to a cause without it being for something specific then they have little if any reason to complain about how it is used so long as it is used responsibly.
By the way, editing function like the quote feature are not working for me. I'm using IE 11.